to be with my kind cousins Reeves. I never shall make them amends for the trouble I have given them. How I long for Wednesday, to see all the family of the Grandisons!-They are all to be there-On several accounts I long for that day; yet this Sir Hargrave I have written, my dear, as usual, very unreservedly. I know that I lie more open than ever to my uncle's observations. But if he will not allow for weakness of heart, of head, and for having been frightened out of my wits, and cruelly used; and for farther apprehensions; and for the sense I have of obligations that never can be returned; why then I must lie wholly at his mercy-But if he should find me to be ever so silly a creature, I hope he will not make his particular conclusions general in disfavour of the sex. Adieu, my dear Lucy!-And you, adieu all the dear and reverend friends, benefactors, lovers, of your HARRIET BYRON. LETTER XL. MRS SELBY TO MISS HARRIET BYRON. Selby-House, Feb. 25. MY DEAREST HARRIET, ALTHOUGH We have long ago taken a resolution never to dictate to your choice; yet we could not excuse ourselves, if we did not acquaint you with any proposal that is made to us, on your account, that you might encourage it, or otherwise, as you thought fit. The dowager Lady D-wrote me a letter some time ago, (as you will see by the date,) but insisted, that I should keep the contents a secret in my own bosom, till she gave me leave to reveal it. She has now given me that leave, and requested that I will propose the matter to you. I have since shewn what has passed between her ladyship and me, to your grandmamma, Mr Selby, and Lucy. They are all silent upon it; for the same reasons that I give you not my opinion; that is to say, till you ask it. But do we not see, my dearest child, that something has happened, within a very few days past, that must distance the hope of every one of your admirers, as they come to be acquainted with the circumstances and situation you are now in? My dear love, you will never be able to resist the impulses of that gratitude which always opened and expanded your worthy heart. Your uncle's tenderness for you, on such a prospect, has made him suppress his inclination to rally you. He professes to pity you, my dear. While, says he, the sweet girl was vaunting herself, and refusing this man, and dismissing that; and imagining herself out of the reach of the deity, to which, sooner or later, all women bow; I spared her not; but now, that I see she is likely to be over head and ears in the passion, and has so much to be said for her excuse, if she is caught; and as our side must perhaps be the hoping side, the gentleman's the triumphant; I pity her too much for what may be the case, to teaze her with any animadversions; especially after what she has suffered from the vile Sir Hargrave. By several hints in your letters, it is impossible, my dear, that we can be beforehand with your inclinations. Young women in a beginning love are always willing to conceal themselves from themselves; they are desirous to smother the fire, before they will call out for help, till it blazes, and frequently becomes too powerful to be extinguished by any help. They will call the passion by another name; as gratitude, suppose; but, my Harriet, gratitude so properly founded as yours is, can be but another name for love. The object so worthy, your own heart so worthy, consent of minds must bring it to love on one side; perhaps on both, if the half-score of ladies you have heard of, are all of them but mere moderns. But that, my dear, is not to be supposed; since worthy hearts find out, and assimilate with, each other. Indeed, those ladies may be such as are captivated with outward figure. A handsome man need not to have the great qualities of a Sir Charles Grandison, to engage the hearts of the generality of our sex. But a good man, and a handsome marr, if he has the vivacity that distinguishes Sir Charles, may marry whom he pleases. If we women love a handsome man, for the sake of our eye, we must be poor creatures indeed, if we love not good men, for the sake of our hearts. What makes us apprehensive for you, my Harriet, is this; that we every one of us are in love ourselves with this fine young gentleman. Your uncle has fallen in with Mr Dawson, an attorney of Nottingham, who acts for Sir Charles in some of his affairs; and gives him such a character, respecting his goodness to his tenants and dependents only, as will render credible all that even the fondest love, and warmest gratitude, can say in his praise. We can hardly tell sometimes how to regret (though your accounts of your sufferings and danger cut us to the heart as we read them) the base attempt of Sir Hargrave. Were all to end as we wish, we should not regret it; but that, my Harriet, is our fear. What will become of me, said your grandmamma, if, at last, the darling of my heart should be entangled in a hopeless passion! If this is likely to be the case, while the fire I spoke of is but smothering, and while but here and there a spark escapes your struggling efforts to keep it down, resolve, my dear, to throw cold water on it, and quench it quite. And how is this to be done, but by changing your personal friendship with the amiable family, into a correspondence by pen and ink, and returning to our longing arms, before the flame gets ahead? When you are with us, you may either give hope to the worthy Orme, or encourage the proposal I enclose, as you please. may make inquiry privately of all these mat- We are, you must believe, very solicitous to dutiful. A dutiful son gives very promising As you are not capable of the mean pride of seeing a number of men in your train, and have always been uneasy at the perseverance of Mr Fenwick and Mr Greville-As you have suffer-. I ed so much from the natural goodness of your heart, on the urgency of that honest man Sir Rowland Meredith in his nephew's favour; and still more from the baseness of that wicked Sir Hargrave-As your good character and lovely person engage you more and more admirersAnd, lastly, as it would be the highest comfort that your grandmamma, and your uncle, and I, and all your friends and well-wishers, could know, to see you happily married-We cannot but wish for this pleasure and satisfaction. The sooner you give it to us, the better. But could there be any hope-You know what I mean-A royal diadem, my dear, would be a despicable thing in the comparison. Adieu, my best love. You are called upon, in my opinion, to a greater trial than ever yet you knew, of that prudence for which you have hitherto been so much applauded by every one, and particularly by Your truly maternal MARIANNA SELBY. GIVE me leave, madam, to address myself to you, though personally unknown, on a very particular occasion; and, at the same time, to beg of you to keep secret, even from Mr Selby, and the party to be named as still more immediately concerned in the subject, till I give my consent; as no one creature of my family, not even the Earl of D-, my son, does, or shall from me, till you approve of it. My lord has just entered into his twentyfifth year. There are not many better young men among the nobility. His minority gave an opportunity to me, and his other trustees, to put him in possession, when he came of age, of very noble and clear estate; which he has not impaired. His person is not to be found fault with. He has learning, and is allowed to have good sense, which every learned man has not. His conduct, his discretion, in his travels, procured him respect and reputation abroad. You I have cast about for a suitable wife for him. look farther than to the person of a woman; though my lord will by no means have beauty left out in the qualifications of a wife. I look to the family to whom a lady owes her education and training up. Quality, however, I stand not upon. A man of quality, you know, confers quality on his wife. An ancient and good gentleman's family is all I am solicitous about in this respect. In this light, yours, madam, on all sides, and for many descents, is unexceptionable. I have a desire, if all things shall be found to be mutually agreeable, to be related to it; and your character, as the young lady has been brought up under your eye, is a great inducement with me. Your niece Byron's beauty, and merit, as well as sweetness of temper, are talked of by everybody. Not a day passes, but we hear of her to her great advantage. Now, madam, will you be pleased to answer me one question, with that explicitness which the importance of the case, and my own intended explicitness to you, may require from woman to woman; especially, as I ask it of you in confidence? Are, then, Miss Byron's affections absolutely disengaged? We are very nice, and must not doubt in this matter. This is the only question I will ask at pre- The favour of a line, as soon as it will suit Your most faithful and obedient servant, LETTER XLII. D to be with my kind cousins Reeves. I never shall make them amends for the trouble I have given them. How I long for Wednesday, to see all the family of the Grandisons!-They are all to be there-On several accounts I long for that day; yet this Sir Hargrave I have written, my dear, as usual, very unreservedly. I know that I lie more open than ever to my uncle's observations. But if he will not allow for weakness of heart, of head, and for having been frightened out of my wits, and cruelly used; and for farther apprehensions; and for the sense I have of obligations that never can be returned; why then I must lie wholly at his mercy-But if he should find me to be ever so silly a creature, I hope he will not make his particular conclusions general in disfavour of the sex. Adieu, my dear Lucy!-And you, adieu all the dear and reverend friends, benefactors, lovers, of your HARRIET BYRON. LETTER XL. MRS SELBY TO MISS HARRIET BYRON. Selby-House, Feb. 25. MY DEAREST HARRIET, ALTHOUGH We have long ago taken a resolution never to dictate to your choice; yet we could not excuse ourselves, if we did not acquaint you with any proposal that is made to us, on your account, that you might encourage it, or otherwise, as you thought fit. The dowager Lady D― wrote me a letter some time ago, (as you will see by the date,) but insisted, that I should keep the contents a secret in my own bosom, till she gave me leave to reveal it. She has now given me that leave, and requested that I will propose the matter to you. I have since shewn what has passed between her ladyship and me, to your grandmamma, Mr Selby, and Lucy. They are all silent upon it; for the same reasons that I give you not my opinion; that is to say, till you ask it. But do we not see, my dearest child, that something has happened, within a very few days past, that must distance the hope of every one of your admirers, as they come to be acquainted with the circumstances and situation you are now in? My dear love, you will never be able to resist the impulses of that gratitude which always opened and expanded your worthy heart. Your uncle's tenderness for you, on such a prospect, has made him suppress his inclination to rally you. He professes to pity you, my dear. While, says he, the sweet girl was vaunting herself, and refusing this man, and dismissing that; and imagining herself out of the reach of the deity, to which, sooner or later, all women bow; I spared her not; but now, that I see she is likely to be over head and ears in the passion, and has so much to be said for her excuse, if she is caught; and as our side must perhaps be the hoping side, the gentleman's the triumphant; I pity her too much for what may be the case, to teaze her with any animadversions ; especially after what she has suffered from the vile Sir Hargrave. By several hints in your letters, it is impossible, my dear, that we can be beforehand with your inclinations. Young women in a beginning love are always willing to conceal themselves from themselves; they are desirous to smother the fire, before they will call out for help, till it blazes, and frequently becomes too powerful to be extinguished by any help. They will call the passion by another name; as gratitude, suppose; but, my Harriet, gratitude so properly founded as yours is, can be but another name for love. The object so worthy, your own heart so worthy, consent of minds must bring it to love on one side; perhaps on both, if the half-score of ladies you have heard of, are all of them but mere moderns. But that, my dear, is not to be supposed; since worthy hearts find out, and assimilate with, each other. Indeed, those ladies may be such as are captivated with outward figure. A handsome man need not to have the great qualities of a Sir Charles Grandison, to engage the hearts of the generality of our sex. But a good man, and a handsome man, if he has the vivacity that distinguishes Sir Charles, may marry whom he pleases. If we women love a handsome man, for the sake of our eye, we must be poor creatures indeed, if we love not good men, for the sake of our hearts. What makes us apprehensive for you, my Harriet, is this; that we every one of us are in love ourselves with this fine young gentleman. Your uncle has fallen in with Mr Dawson, an attorney of Nottingham, who acts for Sir Charles in some of his affairs; and gives him such a character, respecting his goodness to his tenants and dependents only, as will render credible all that even the fondest love, and warmest gratitude, can say in his praise. We can hardly tell sometimes how to regret (though your accounts of your sufferings and danger cut us to the heart as we read them) the base attempt of Sir Hargrave. Were all to end as we wish, we should not regret it; but that, my Harriet, is our fear. What will become of me, said your grandmamma, if, at last, the darling of my heart should be entangled in a hopeless passion! If this is likely to be the case, while the fire I spoke of is but smothering, and while but here and there a spark escapes your struggling efforts to keep it down, resolve, my dear, to throw cold water on it, and quench it quite. And how is this to be done, but by changing your personal friendship with the amiable family, into a correspondence by pen and ink, and returning to our longing arms, before the flame gets ahead? When you are with us, you may either give hope to the worthy Orme, or encourage the proposal I enclose, as you please. As you are not capable of the mean pride of seeing a number of men in your train, and have always been uneasy at the perseverance of Mr Fenwick and Mr Greville-As you have suffered so much from the natural goodness of your heart, on the urgency of that honest man Sir Rowland Meredith in his nephew's favour; and still more from the baseness of that wicked Sir Hargrave-As your good character and lovely person engage you more and more admirers And, lastly, as it would be the highest comfort that your grandmamma, and your uncle, and I, and all your friends and well-wishers, could know, to see you happily married-We cannot but wish for this pleasure and satisfaction. The sooner you give it to us, the better. But could there be any hope-You know what I mean-A royal diadem, my dear, would be a despicable thing in the comparison. Adieu, my best love. You are called upon, in my opinion, to a greater trial than ever yet you knew, of that prudence for which you have hitherto been so much applauded by every one, and particularly by Your truly maternal MARIANNA SELBY. LETTER XLI. THE COUNTESS DOWAGER OF D TO MRS SELBY. [Enclosed in the preceding.] Jan. 23. GIVE me leave, madam, to address myself to you, though personally unknown, on a very particular occasion; and, at the same time, to beg of you to keep secret, even from Mr Selby, and the party to be named as still more immediately concerned in the subject, till I give my consent; as no one creature of my family, not even the Earl of D-, my son, does, or shall from me, till you approve of it. My lord has just entered into his twentyfifth year. There are not many better young men among the nobility. His minority gave an opportunity to me, and his other trustees, to put him in possession, when he came of age, of a very noble and clear estate; which he has not impaired. His person is not to be found fault with. He has learning, and is allowed to have good sense, which every learned man has not. His conduct, his discretion, in his travels, procured him respect and reputation abroad. You may make inquiry privately of all these matters. We are, you must believe, very solicitous to have him happily married. He is far from being an undutiful son. Indeed he was always dutiful. A dutiful son gives very promising hopes of making a good husband. He assures me that his affections are disengaged, and that he will pay the most particular regard to my recommendation. I have cast about for a suitable wife for him. I look farther than to the person of a woman; though my lord will by no means have beauty left out in the qualifications of a wife. I look to the family to whom a lady owes her education and training up. Quality, however, I stand not upon. A man of quality, you know, confers quality on his wife. An ancient and good gentleman's family is all I am solicitous about in this respect. In this light, yours, madam, on all sides, and for many descents, is unexceptionable. I have a desire, if all things shall be found to be mutually agreeable, to be related to it; and your character, as the young lady has been brought up under your eye, is a great inducement with me. Your niece Byron's beauty, and merit, as well as sweetness of temper, are talked of by everybody. Not a day passes, but we hear of her to her great advantage. Now, madam, will you be pleased to answer me one question, with that explicitness which the importance of the case, and my own intended explicitness to you, may require from woman to woman; especially, as I ask it of you in confidence? Are, then, Miss Byron's affections absolutely disengaged? We are very nice, and must not doubt in this matter. This is the only question I will ask at present. If this can be answered as I wish, others, in a treaty of this important nature, will come into consideration on both sides. The favour of a line, as soon as it will suit your convenience, will oblige, Madam, of this county, have respectively made application to us for our interest, and to Miss Byron for her favour; but hitherto without effect; though the terms each proposes might entitle him to consideration. Miss Byron professes to honour the married state, and one day proposes to make some man happy in it, if it be not his own fault; but declares, that she has not yet seen the man to whom with her hand she can give her heart. In truth, madam, we are all neutrals on this occasion. We have the highest opinion of her discretion. She has read, she has conversed; and yet there is not in the country a better housewife, or one who would make a more prudent manager in a family. We are all fond of her, even to doting. Were she not our child, we should love her for her good qualities, and sweetness of manners, and a frankness that has few examples among young women. Permit me, madam, to add one thing; about which, Miss Byron, in her turn, will be very nice. Your ladyship is pleased to say, that my lord's affections are disengaged. Were his lordship a prince, and hoped to succeed with her, they must not be so, after he had seen and conversed with her. Yet the future happiness, and not pride, would be the consideration with her; for she has that diffidence in her own merits, from which the worthy of both sexes cannot be totally free. This diffidence would increase too much for her happiness, were she to be thought of with indifference by any man on earth, who hoped to be more than indifferent to her. As to other questions, which, as this is answered, your ladyship thinks may come to be asked, I choose, un-asked, (having no reserves,) to acquaint your ladyship, that Miss Byron has not, in her own power, quite 15,000l. She has, it is true, reversionary expectations; but we none of us wish that they should for many years take place; since that must be by the death of Mrs Shirley, her grandmother, who is equally revered and beloved by all that know her; and whose life is bound up in the happiness of her grand-daughter. I will strictly obey your ladyship in the secrecy enjoined; and am, Madam, Your ladyship's obliged and faithful humble servant, MARIANNA SELBY. LETTER XLIII. THE COUNTESS DOWAGER OF D TO MRS SELBY. the condition of a small estate he has there; which he finds capable of great improvement; and about which he has given proper orders. I took the first opportunity to question him in relation to his inclinations to marriage, and whether he had a regard to any particular woman; and having received an answer to my wishes, I mentioned Miss Byron to him, as a young lady that I should think, from the general good character that she bore, would make him an excellent wife. He said, he had heard her much talked of, and always to her advantage. I then shewed him, as in confidence, my letter, and your answer. There can be, said I, (on purpose to try him,) but one objection on your part; and that is fortune; 15,000l. to a nobleman, who is possessed of 12,000l. a-year, and has been offered four times the portion, may be thought very inadequate. The less to be stood upon, replied he, where the fortune on my side is so considerable. The very answer, my dear Mrs Selby, that I wished him to make. I asked him, if I should begin a formal treaty with you, upon what he said. He answered that he had heard from every mouth so much said in the praise of Miss Byron's mind, as well as person, that he desired I would; and that I would directly endeavour to obtain leave for him to visit the young lady. I propose it accordingly. I understand, that she is at present in London. I leave it to your choice, madam, and Mrs Shirley's, and Mr Selby's, (to whom now, as also to Miss Byron, you will be so good as to communicate the affair,) whether you will send for her down to receive my lord's visit and mine: or whether we shall wait on her in town. I propose very high satisfaction to myself, if the young people approve of each other, in an alliance so much to my wishes in every respect. I shall love the Countess of D- as well as any of you can do Miss Byron; and as she has not at present a mother, I shall with pleasure supply that tender relation to her, for the sake of so many engaging qualities, as common fame, as well as good Mrs Selby, says she is mistress of. You will dispatch an answer as to the interview. I am impatient for it. I depend much upon the frankness of the young lady, which you make a part of her agreeable character. And am, Madam, Your affectionate and faithful humble servant, M- D Feb. 23. I SHOULD SOOner have answered yours, had I not waited for the return of my son, who had taken a little journey into Wales, to look into |